10-10-2003, 06:14 PM
usually it's lust but sometimes you see a beautiful woman and you just can't get your mind off her, and the blunt notion of sex isn't all that prominent, yet is more subtle and romantic. it's something else but i don't find this to be a necessarily good indicator of potential chemistry. usually, the woman then fails to rise up to the grand ideals you had imagined her living up to. chentvin is right...true love transcends the surface. you can work side by side with a girl for months or years and then later find out that she is indeed "the one" and looking elsewhere doesn't even seem to be a remote consideration.