10-26-2003, 07:40 PM
Do you think it might have something to do with the way you use to act, me personally don't even remember you, did you go by some other name?
People that are abusive are generally that way even after they try to change. Its like a man that bullies or hits his wife, he is generally sorry for having done so, but then after time will always do it again. Most of the time it has something to do with his own self worth or feeling of being inadequate, but it doesn't matter how many times that person says sorry, its action over a period of time. I always wonder at why the abuser always expects the victim to feel sorry and forgive what they have done.
People that are abusive are generally that way even after they try to change. Its like a man that bullies or hits his wife, he is generally sorry for having done so, but then after time will always do it again. Most of the time it has something to do with his own self worth or feeling of being inadequate, but it doesn't matter how many times that person says sorry, its action over a period of time. I always wonder at why the abuser always expects the victim to feel sorry and forgive what they have done.