08-18-2004, 05:14 PM
Ok I'm gonna say this as nice as I can, telling a woman that she can't do something with her body due to your religion is wrong. Its like saying that no one elses views count.
Remember there are many people out there that don't have the same religion as you do or don't have any religion at all.
Now what about raped and/or insest and gets pregnant isn't that a good reason to have an abortion?
What about if the girl/woman will die in childbirth or somewhere along the road to child birth?
If my daughter/girlfriend/wife/mother was rapped I would want her to have an abortion because that is not a child born in love. Will I force her to have an abortion, no its her body and its her choice. I know if I was a woman and was rapped I would want an abortion. No matter what her choice was I would standby her and if I didn't like it.
If my girlfriend/wife was going to die in child birth or on the way to child birth I would want her to have an abortion. Again would I force her to, no again its her choice and no matter what I would standby her choice.
Does all this mean I like abortion? yes and no. In the above cases I believe abortion is ok. What I don't like are some of these girls that go and have abortion after abortion just because they were not smart enough to keep the guys our of their pants or use protection.
What about if me and my girlfriend/wife are having sex and we take all the percautions but she still ends up pregnant. Then we would sit down and talk about it and both of us would decide what to do. In a way my choice doesn't really matter much, as she is the one that will have to carry the baby. If I didn't want a child and she did then I would standby her choice. If it was the other way around then again I would standby her choice.
You want to tell people in your religion what to do with their bodies fine, you can go preach at your church but don't go telling me or others that are not of your religion what we can and cannot do with our own bodies.
Remember there are many people out there that don't have the same religion as you do or don't have any religion at all.
Now what about raped and/or insest and gets pregnant isn't that a good reason to have an abortion?
What about if the girl/woman will die in childbirth or somewhere along the road to child birth?
If my daughter/girlfriend/wife/mother was rapped I would want her to have an abortion because that is not a child born in love. Will I force her to have an abortion, no its her body and its her choice. I know if I was a woman and was rapped I would want an abortion. No matter what her choice was I would standby her and if I didn't like it.
If my girlfriend/wife was going to die in child birth or on the way to child birth I would want her to have an abortion. Again would I force her to, no again its her choice and no matter what I would standby her choice.
Does all this mean I like abortion? yes and no. In the above cases I believe abortion is ok. What I don't like are some of these girls that go and have abortion after abortion just because they were not smart enough to keep the guys our of their pants or use protection.
What about if me and my girlfriend/wife are having sex and we take all the percautions but she still ends up pregnant. Then we would sit down and talk about it and both of us would decide what to do. In a way my choice doesn't really matter much, as she is the one that will have to carry the baby. If I didn't want a child and she did then I would standby her choice. If it was the other way around then again I would standby her choice.
You want to tell people in your religion what to do with their bodies fine, you can go preach at your church but don't go telling me or others that are not of your religion what we can and cannot do with our own bodies.