07-04-2003, 08:26 PM
I am still not going to reply to the specifics until I know them...for all I know she had no clevage...he might be insecure and was looking 'down' not really at her breasts. But we are not talking about 'glances' or 'checking her out' I believe they are making it out like he may have had a habit of this if so many people complained...while I believe it should have followed regular protocol and he be given a warning not fired if this is the first infraction...it does not appear that this is a matter of just admiring these women with a glance....I agree men will look..... so will women..... but as a professional he should be able to 'control' himself...a glance is one thing staring to where it makes a woman uncomfortable is another....lets remember these are professionals in the work place... why would you believe that a man would appreciate me staring at his crotch as we discussed how the data that I had for him on his research project...I dont believe he would trust that I was serious about his research if my mind was wondering around below the belt. I do agree men tend to be more flattered than women with eye compliments...but immaturity is not a good excuse..there is a time and place to be in control of your urges....a work environment....... if for no other reason than all the shit that comes back on you guys like this, should be one of those times you make the effort. Just because a woman dresses to accent her figure does not mean she wants to be oggled....and it does not mean she is uptight if she becomes uncomfortable...I dont know the specifics on this story so I am trying to generalize...
This is a new millenium lets try to work past the stereotypes and show a little mutual respect to the opposite sex.
This is a new millenium lets try to work past the stereotypes and show a little mutual respect to the opposite sex.