05-29-2003, 06:54 PM
Heh, Shades of Gray? On one of My Topics?! Noooooo. :lol:
I think there has already been some great points made in just the few posts you all have left. I agree with Soul, Gboy: Great post to kick it off.
And I really think your example is great for the debate, too Grits. Here is an instance of... justafiable cheating?!
G-Boy had an interesting statement in his post about this, too.
"So let's say it's early, there are rocky times, that kind of stuff. That's possible to get over."
I understand this logic, for the one instance that hides in my past is summed up by your very statement, G. You know what, though? It happened in the 3rd week and we never got past it. It plagued us throughout the 2 year union. And indeed it was the trust issue that would creep back at uncomfortable times. Ya know... like mid fight when it seemed there was no more current ammo to toss? I am out of valid points, so better bring up the 3rd week thing! lol Many of you can relate.
With this said, let me bring out another question. ((I am not abandoning the old, please still discuss them, too))
1. Why don't You cheat? Is it a principal (sp?), meaning you simply don't do it because cheating is wrong? Or is it love/respect, meaning you simply don't want to hurt this person you are with?
I am not saying it can't be both, but what seems to be the bigger deturrent for you?
I think there has already been some great points made in just the few posts you all have left. I agree with Soul, Gboy: Great post to kick it off.
And I really think your example is great for the debate, too Grits. Here is an instance of... justafiable cheating?!
G-Boy had an interesting statement in his post about this, too.
"So let's say it's early, there are rocky times, that kind of stuff. That's possible to get over."
I understand this logic, for the one instance that hides in my past is summed up by your very statement, G. You know what, though? It happened in the 3rd week and we never got past it. It plagued us throughout the 2 year union. And indeed it was the trust issue that would creep back at uncomfortable times. Ya know... like mid fight when it seemed there was no more current ammo to toss? I am out of valid points, so better bring up the 3rd week thing! lol Many of you can relate.
With this said, let me bring out another question. ((I am not abandoning the old, please still discuss them, too))
1. Why don't You cheat? Is it a principal (sp?), meaning you simply don't do it because cheating is wrong? Or is it love/respect, meaning you simply don't want to hurt this person you are with?
I am not saying it can't be both, but what seems to be the bigger deturrent for you?