06-17-2005, 05:18 AM
I thought this might be an interesting topic as a lot of people are into this sort of thing.
Now I thought I'd say that theres a several general rules I use when approaching a girl.
1. The 3s rule. At a party? Walk into the room, see a girl, you walk up to her in 3 seconds or so. Why? Well the point is so you can get talking to her before that feeling of how she might reject you interferes. Just don't hesitate and then go to the girl, if the girl sees you hesitate she might think you're a wuss and we don't want that.
2. Girls seem to quite responsive to these things: Confidence, humor, well dressed / Groomed, a nice smile and the ability to make an emotional connection.
3. Be the alpha male. Chances are when you go somewhere and there is a beautiful girl you won't be the only one trying to get her attention, so put yourself above the rest of them who will no doubt be blabbering out dated pick up lines and asking if she wants a drink or to go have fun with them. This is where you set yourself apart from the rest. I've found the best approach is to have a cocky-funny mix attitude with a dash of indifference to her beauty.
4. Body language: Figure it out, and figure it out quick. What a girl is thinking / feeling when shes moving around or looking certain ways will determine if you get her number or just make a fool of yourself.
Well I thought these were things that all you guys out there might find useful when dealing with the opposite gender. I won't say they guarantee anything, just something good to use in your repertoire. Depending on interest I might get a bit more specific on what I've found that works and share stories
Girls feel free to share yours too, but I think we all know how hard it is for a cute girl to successfully approach a guy :P
Now I thought I'd say that theres a several general rules I use when approaching a girl.
1. The 3s rule. At a party? Walk into the room, see a girl, you walk up to her in 3 seconds or so. Why? Well the point is so you can get talking to her before that feeling of how she might reject you interferes. Just don't hesitate and then go to the girl, if the girl sees you hesitate she might think you're a wuss and we don't want that.
2. Girls seem to quite responsive to these things: Confidence, humor, well dressed / Groomed, a nice smile and the ability to make an emotional connection.
3. Be the alpha male. Chances are when you go somewhere and there is a beautiful girl you won't be the only one trying to get her attention, so put yourself above the rest of them who will no doubt be blabbering out dated pick up lines and asking if she wants a drink or to go have fun with them. This is where you set yourself apart from the rest. I've found the best approach is to have a cocky-funny mix attitude with a dash of indifference to her beauty.
4. Body language: Figure it out, and figure it out quick. What a girl is thinking / feeling when shes moving around or looking certain ways will determine if you get her number or just make a fool of yourself.
Well I thought these were things that all you guys out there might find useful when dealing with the opposite gender. I won't say they guarantee anything, just something good to use in your repertoire. Depending on interest I might get a bit more specific on what I've found that works and share stories
Girls feel free to share yours too, but I think we all know how hard it is for a cute girl to successfully approach a guy :P