02-26-2004, 11:34 AM
Yeah... I'm one of those "nice guys" and sometimes it blows. In truth I get along better with chicks than guys, and that can be a problem usually. I've had a friend with benefits who would never commit (although she's a screwball anyway, glad no relationship came out of it), several girls that I was interested in and they seemed interested in me, but either they were really just in it for friendship or something along those lines. Luckily I never got sucked into the used category... and I've got a very stable relationship going now. Nice guys may finish last, but later in life they can finish best.