04-21-2004, 09:21 PM
note to self *no more funny kid stuff* My dad loved to beat me with a belt, now I have a problem spanking my boy, I have done it a total of 2 times in 11 years. I didnt turn in to an abuser from my abuse but I wish I had more control over my son. I think if you lash out in anger at your children it will be passed on to your kids but spankings are a good thing at the right times. you dont spank to hurt, you spank to teach.